Ok, maybe I shouldn't be, but I'm totally po'd right now. I knew H's car broke down last weekend and D9 told me about it and said "OW rescued them". I just saw the kids off, they were in a car which was not H's, I'm 99% sure was OW. She pulled on my property, which he is no longer paying for btw. The disrespect for that is unbelievable, but with his past actions I'm sure shouldn't be surprising. If I confirm that was OW, easily enough just have to ask D9 whose white car that was, and it is her, what the heck should I do about it? And btw, if my H did this I'm thinking even lower of him than before which I didn't think possible!!! I mean my thought is to tell H if OW comes on my property again I'm going to kick her a** but that may not be the right thing to do??? Karen