Yes 25 yrs you are right. My lesson is that I can forgive, I can love again, I will be alright if it doesn't work out with current h.
I feel all that and know all that, but with current h, he is the one I really wanted to spend the rest of my life with. He does have such really good qualities. I just think his life got derailed somewhat on this road to life.
If my life goes on without him, I will be ok. I would rather spend my life with h that's all, but can't force him to want to be with me. That I know for sure!
Thanks for posting your insight!
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"