W just came home from family Christmas - she has an interesting tactic on everything. She broadcasts what she does - then says she has been "completely honest". She told her parents she was dating another man - they of course, disagree vehemently, but she does this so she can somehow come up with a twisted sense of "righteousness" because she is honest.
Also, W chewed me out because I told D8 that OM is "fully married" - W's exact words. OM is married, but has been separated from his wife. W actually talked to OM's W, and said HIS W likes her. Wow, crazy. She was angry at me for saying OM was "fully" married - I'm wondering if there are "partial" marriages? I told her I didn't need to hear her justifications for her actions.
Anyway, D8 came home from W's family Christmas, and D8 told me that the first thing her G'pa said was, "Hi guys, Merry Christmas - how's your boyfriend?" Come to find out this was completely untrue. I'm worried about D8 - she is saying weird things - I think she is under tremendous emotional stress. D8 also told me that W told all her friends that I told her Dad about OM - this was also untrue.
I also may have just got verification that it is PA - D8 told me that OM came over to spend the night, so I asked W, and W avoided the question, and said it was none of my business, and she didn't have to tell me. I told W she can do what she wants, but DO NOT tell my daughter that she was sleeping with someone.
Finally, best comment of the night, after W told me that she was mad about the "fully married"thing, I responded like this: "I am showing D8 that marriage is a beautiful life-long commitment that you make to your spouse and to God, and that you make a vow to forsake all others. If you disagree, you can teach her differently." Hah, how do you respond to that!
The only positive note is that if it IS PA, then that just helps me that much more in court!
So, a sucky day, but I guess two weeks ago, I said the hard times were a'comin! I just tell myself - either she'll come around, or she's truly self-centered arrogant person that cares about nothing but herself.
