Didn't mean to trigger any fears of OW or anything, just thinking how weird it is for a guy with family to hole up alone on Christmas....yikes...ANYHOW, like we say here, let go of the uncontrollable and we know your H is definitely that. SOOOO, another great thing about the xh and your call was your son hearing you forgiving the xh. You modelled forgiveness so now your son knows what it looks like. Maybe God wants you to be able to feel the same way someday, about your present h. I am NOT God so I don't know His will in this. But the wackiness is another way of saying, possible miraculous...?
We do know You survived a D years ago, a h leaving you 20 years ago, regretting it, doing nothing for his/your son....and you moved on and forgave him and learned to love again...hmmmm, any possible lessons you just got reminded of?
(( j ))
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
