Hi guys, thanks for the wishes... Forrest, I dont feel like debating with you anything right now. Yes, you are right, that was the cycle. It's happening all over again. I am feeling I am pushed to the corner where my needs are overheard and belittled by someone who cant deal with them... We'll see.
Today he came with us at the friends house for lunch. We were 4 lovely "families". Funny how the other couples started a discussion about cheating etc. I caught myself joining the discussion and then realised it was too damn weird to talk about something on a theoritical level when it has actually happened to me. Yesterday H called the OW to wish her happy nameday (it was yesterday) and he admitted to me he did very lightly and said he told her he was in our area (suburb). He didnt say he was with me or his family. He MEANT that. Careful choice of words... Dont really care about her, I just see he is getting "aggressive" about everything.
He took the kids to see his family and is keeping them overnight. This is getting funnier and funnier. We are a strange cross of a family and a divorced couple with kids. Schedules, time together etc are confusing people around us (friends, parents etc). On Sunday we are going on that trip. Right now the thought of spending so much time with him seems stressful. But I will have a good time no matter what. Where we are going there is a lot of snow and I like snow... Take care all, K
