sounds like your Christmas went ok and I'm sure the kids enjoyed their time with Dad.. I'm surprised your kids don't ask why dad isn't staying at the house anymore.. my 4 yr old ask all the time... she wants Daddy to come home, to stay here with all of us.. etc.. but I guess that is good that they havent' felt the effects of it yet... but if they did they would probably make him feel it by saying stuff and crying.. that is what my D4 does to my H ....
Glad you DB'd and held your cool... it really comes down to our H's affairs sizzling down or the bubble to pop before they will realize what they had and possibly lost. As you said it best... we are here to not give them any other scapegoat to use against us.... they will always look back to see what kind of dignity we have and how we handled ourself with pride and unconditional love...
you are a remarkable women..
Me: 38/H:40 M:7yrs TG: 10yrs 2Girls: 4yr & 7 month old Bomb 8/22/08 OW/EA/PA 8/23/08 with 25yr old Moved out 9/22/08
