Carlos,
I hope you are having a good time ...

Stick around. You have a long way to go still. You may not want to reconcile anymore/restore your marriage, but emotionally you "havent done" the full circle yet. Other people's expierences will be useful. We are friends among friends here.
xxxx
K

Me&H:42
S11&D10
Bomb 5/2007-Sep 11/2007
Reconc.November 2009