Hi Red, It sounds like you had some difficulty dealing with the family dinner. That made me chuckle a little because it sounds like something i would do....avoid the sitch. We all have our way of dealing with things. On the guy front, although I agree with Woog....there are nice guys out there, i have heard from a couple of single women that they have run into some tools also. I read your original posts on this thread and you sound alot better today....even if we are smack in the middle of the holidays.