Hi John, My H got me a thoughtful gift too. I would rather have it than all the jewels he bought me over the years to make me "happy" not because he loved me. I have noticed that the longer we have been seperated (over a year) the more thoughtful things he does. I don't know if it is the WAS attempt to ease their feelings of guilt or what. I'm glad you had a good holiday, continue to move forward and don't look back.
R 23 years M 20 years Bomb June 2007 S Oct 2007 Ds 11 & 16 Ds and I moved out Aug. 2008