Jean-Paul, I don't mean to sound negative, but its been my experience that many of these people do not snap out of it. I know that some do, but I believe that many more do not. Problem with this MLC and all of the B.S. that goes along with it is this. People will not admit they have done wtong, so even if in thier mind they know that they messed up, they will have to backtrack on all of the mean and nasty stuff they said about the LBS to get back with them. There just isn;t too many people who are going to do that. Also, as pointed out, often times this stuff runs 4,5 or more years and once they have "woke up" its too late. Its hard to get past all the mean stuff that they do to you, many cannot. If you wish to reunite, if that is an option, I wish you well.