sounds like you are going to have a very nice time this week!
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Glam, I'm so sorry about your H not going to show up! He is still in MLC & denial it sounds like! You try to enjoy yourself anyway without him & enjoy being with your sister. Do something different if you can. I'm thinking of you!!!! (((HUGS)))
MWG, I'm going to try to have fun this weekend. It's very hard as I've been thinking of H a lot & just miss him so bad!
My oldest dog has already been under the Christmas tree & tried to open her present. Yes, they get presents & they are so cute opening them! Almost as fun watching them as it would be if there were kids here.
nlt, Enjoy your holiday and it sounds like your dog is anxious to open her present. They are so precious when they do such things.
Merry Christmas!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Yes, my dog loves Christmas & presents. She has been looking under the tree all day! It is so cute & she will growl at the others, she doesn't want them around her gifts.
I hope you have a wonderful Christmas & I really appreciate your words of wisdom!!!!
nlt, Enjoy your holiday and spend as much time as you can w/your parents, family, friends and pets. They have such a way of healing the soul this time of the year.
Next year will be a much better year for all of us. Let's look to the future.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
I had a very nice day with my parents & it was so fun to watch the dogs open their presents! They are so cute!!!
I did ok today, a few moments but tonight I saw something on the Internet about things that happened in 2008 & I thought I was divorced in 2008 & it just hit me really hard. I'm having a bad time of it right now. My parents don't realize this as I don't want to upset them, they did stay up later with me & we played some games, but I'm having a hard time tonight realizing what all has happened to me this past year!!!
Just read a few of your posts. You HAVE had a rough year. Us too, but not so much the marriage. We've had, literally 4 deaths in 7 months, 3 on my side and one on H's but his mom is terminally ill so we've had like "Death Watch, 2008" here. Screw this.
2009 is almost here...THANK GOD...So, cheers!
It'll WILL get better. Believe it. How are you doing with the 180's and GAL? No matter what happens with your xh, you gotta do these things for your happiness. ((( j )))
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
of course there were many reminders of things and for you, all of this happened so fast. it is only natural to feel the way you do but time has a way of healing.
25years
i am sorry to hear about your rough year and the deaths in your families.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
