Are you going to tell your h that you spoke to ex h's family as well as ex h? I do not think your h will handle it very well, do you? Does xh know you are remarried with children?

I think for your S20, this has been a good day for him as he may get to see the father he has had no contact with for several years. How exciting is that?

You have had quite an interesting day!

Last edited by MidwesternGirl; 12/26/08 04:36 AM.
The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19