I admire your openness and forgiveness, nothing bad can come from that. What is best for my son's has been my life for the past year. I have forgiven my wife but there are consequences to actions as Amy stated as well. You know, let us not forget that the LBS has feelings to. The thing that I am ashamed to say is that I was so in love with my wife for 10 years and now I am so apathetic towards her. I still care for her and love her as a child of God but not as a husband does. It is hard to explain. I am glad for you that your heart is still strong for her. That is a blessing from God.