I totally agree. I am just so tired of the cat and mouse crap. Just say what you are thinking and stop all of the guessing games. If you can't tell, I am not a very good DB'er. LOL. I am afraid that irreparable damage has already been done. The trust is gone. I mean, I use to think marriage was a sacred thing that could not be destroyed. I was very anti-divorce ect., but that was before I walked in these shoes of a LBS with two young kids to try and explain things to. I was very arrogant in my opinions and quite naive as well I suspect. Well people change I guess. Sometimes the wheels fall off the wagon and you just can not get them off. I just hope that if there are any ladies (and men) out there thinking of doing what my wife did, that they have a chance to read of the despair on these boards. I hope they can be spared and their families spared of of the heartache and destruction so many of us have suffered.
