AmyC - I'm trying to find your thread. I've read some of your responses to other threads. You mentioned that you have been legally separated from your H for 2 years now - but not moving toward divorce. Even that gives me hope.
My WAW has legal separation for past 6 months with another 6 months to go. She likely left for OM who she is still seeing. To her she has to live her life and not look back. But is not giving me so much as a thought.
I want to know your story - because I feel I am following the same path.
You can respond on my thread "Second Thread"... p.s. why don't you have a link to your thread in your signature or even your history ? You can add these details in your profile under "my stuff"
Thanks, Jim
Me:40 / W:33 / D:3 T:7.5/M:4 D Day: 1/24/08 Legal Separated: 6/12/08 BF who sleeps over: confirmed 11/10/08 Suspect BF pre-dates D Day