LonelyD - I read your thread and the "what if" world - I live there too.

Somewhere in your post, you mentioned how hard it is to be friends with WAW, after doing all she did to you. I understand completely. Does she really want to be friends - or is it just easier to get over the guild of her ongoing affair if I don't fight it and be friends.

I know we need to be friends if there is ever a chance to repair our marriage, but how do you do it when the WAW has moved on with her own life with her BF ?


Me:40 / W:33 / D:3
T:7.5/M:4
D Day: 1/24/08
Legal Separated: 6/12/08
BF who sleeps over: confirmed 11/10/08
Suspect BF pre-dates D Day

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