Trusting that is terrible how your ex is trying to manipulate the kids. It seems they are old enough to make up their own minds.

It will be interesting to see if they write the letter.

Happy Holidays!

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"