Still some feelings lingering.......

[Choosing_Life]

Sadly there is no rule that says that love is symmetrical, or predictable, or has good timing... all too often, the opposites of these things are true. Look for the positive side of your feelings: they remind you that you are a loving, human person. People who are loving and human get hurt sometimes. There is more to life than simply shielding ourselves against pain and disappointment. What kind of life would that be? A life without risk, without hope, without adventure. Your persistent feelings for your XW are telling you that you still have a lot of love to give... she's just not the one to receive it (right now, I guess... I will need to read your thread to get the specifics of your sitch). Someone is out there for you, and you are out there for some one. Have faith. God is a God of love.