Well, W and k's have left for the IL's place. I leave for AZ in a couple hours. Christmas morning was nice - somewhat pleasant. UNTIL W started about wanting to know on line p/w for some e-bills (gave those to her) and then how I paid other bills (ummm, from my account and no she was not getting the password for that). Then she wants me to take a pic of her an the k's to send to some of her friends (yuck). My pic taking skill is not great - don't think they turned out.
I will enjoy my trip - will miss my k's immensely - but it is time for me to do me stuff. W is still, I think, in shock that I would even go down by myself. I will also be drafting my reply to her D papers (that always goes better after a couple glasses of Cab Merlot or something equally as yummy). AND I am also scripting what I am planning for Jan 2 - the day the k's hear the whole TRUTH - what W wants in D, the A, how their life will be different - ENOUGH SUGAR COATING!!!!!!!!
2009 will be different... still crazy, but different.
Merry Christmas all.
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
{{{LIS}}}} Sounds like you are having a good day..what will you do in AZ?? I hope you have a magnificent time and yes..2009 will be different and hopefully better for us all in whatever way that will be
Hugs to you and have a safe trip
Tawnya
Me:39 H:40 D18/S12 M20/T21 Bomb 10/11/08 One Two Three Four
I have nothing really planned. Hit some boxing day sales for sure tomorrow. There is a hockey game on Saturday (and I know OM won't be one of the officials) and NFL on Sunday - might have to hit those.
Other than that, have a condo with just me and a king size bed, so may as well go to the bar to pick up... JUST KIDDING!!!!!
Take care. Hope you have a good holiday season. I will be on here from AZ, so we can keep in touch.
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
All I know is that 2009 has got to be way better than 2008!!! I am all for learning but there has got to be an easier way! Glad to hear that you are ok. Your kids will be fine and it is good to put more pressure on your fogged out alien W!
Hugs, kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Heard from a good F friend that W has said she has told the K's about the A. I have my doubts what in fact she told them, if anything. She said she told her parents in July, but when I finally talked to them in early Dec, I learned this was NOT the case at all.
Anybody else had this experience?
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
My ex said he told his parents, but in reality all he said was that he met someone he could talk to. His parents also unwittingly funded the first retainer for the D. Hid Dad didn't realize until I told him in March that his son was a cheater just like he had been. I don't think they would know the truth if it came up and bit them in the rear!!( the cheating spouse that is)
kat
Last edited by kat727; 12/27/0812:30 AM.
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Thanks. And thanks for reminding me of the mantra!!!!!!!!!!
I am sitting in our condo in AZ, watching hockey preparing a response to her D papers. Having a few Bud Light (with lime) make it a little easier. And the BULLCHIT makes it real easy to prep the response. NO MORE MR NICE GUY!!!!!!
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.