Another wife Hit by the Bomb #6

[Tawnya]

So Christmas was good and awkward

Son LOVED all his presents, esp his drums..

Daughter is thrilled with her ipod, playing with it as we speak

Daughter comes out with my presents and I usually separate our presents into piles and she goes "where is your pile" and I was like "I don't have a pile" and she was like "OH" poor thing..LOL

So..hub comes upstairs and seems to not even want to be there, sits down, is playing with the CATS instead of watching opening presents (so weirdddd) and then we had him his presents, first from daughter, and then the ones I got..I didn't think anything about it, but afterwards, I said to daughter, "did you really think I'd get a present" and she said, "well that's why dad seemed so mad that you got him stuff" and I said, "you think he was mad?" and she said, "well at least uncomfortable" LOL..in my mind I was thinking, "um YEAH, he should be" cause he went out last night to get "something" cause he came up with this candy he said he went out and got himself last night, and I'm thinking, bet that's not all he bought..and for a SPLIT second I wondered if he got me anything, but nope..but oh well

I know who took the high road

I kinda don't know what to do about daughter, who is 18. She has a tude with her dad right now, which I can't blame her, and I don't know whether to talk to her about it or let him deal with the consequences of his actions with her..I'm thinking the latter because she's older and more "aware" of what is going on than my 12 yo is. For example, son/daughter/hub were talking about going to the movie tonight and daughter is like, "I don't really want to go with just them" *she said to me afterwards*

Tawnya