Thanks everyone

Well my goals are already being tested.

Ex has the kids today at his parents.

This morning he demanded that the kids write OW a note telling her how wonderful they think she is.

He wants them then to present this to her as a Christmas gift.

The kids did not want to do this.

He told them they did not have any choice.

Then could not think of anything to say.

I had to HOLD myself back from calling him and chewing his ass out.

He was definitely testing me.

He was trying to push my buttons.

He is trying to justify OW to the kids and his family.

Is this not the sickest thing?


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11