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Just checking in on my friend. Don't worry about the little ego boost. They can be good in small doses. Hope you are good today.


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(((((LE)))))!!!!

Sorry we missed you on our shopping excursion. Yea...you might have had trouble keeping up.

Distractions are good...very good...especially this time of year.

I just wanted to say "hello" and send the hugs.

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I'm so freezing cold. I worked until about 2:00 a.m. Then got called back into work this PM for a weird smell in the building. Turned out it was a simple fix. People see me here at an uncharacteristic time, so they grab me to fix a problem that has been lingering for weeks. I don't get human nature. Anyway, going to go get a haircut and maybe finish Christmas shopping.


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{{{{LE}}} UGH..NOT a fun way to spend the evening/both evenings..I hope you get some time off after the 2 a.m. thing and then back again \:\(

Did you get to go shopping? Did you MAN shop or really shop? LOL \:\)

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Hugs, LE!!! I hope you are doing okay...staying warm! I hope you got your shopping done too.

I'll be around over Christmas...stop by if you want. I don't really cook, but, the kids and I are making pizzas for Christmas dinner. You are welcome to join us for that!

Love you!
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Thanks Amy. We would always spend Christmas Eve at a family and friends get together, but the host family moved away this summer. Sad story there, their youngest child has cancer that was discovered after they moved away. So they are not having a good Christmas either. We are just going to lay low at home. I guess I will be grateful for healthy kids.

Sorry to be Debbie Downer--wah wah waaaah.

I am working tomorrow and again Friday. I asked my boss if he cared if I came in on Christmas and worked. He just laughed. It is supposed to be warmer on Christmas day and I need to trim up some trees, so I can take out my anger with the chainsaw on the low hanging branches that bother me on the riding mower.


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{{{LE}}} That's the spirit..LOL..take it out on the branches!!

I hope you have a better day than you think you will my friend..you could come by here on your way to Amy's..we are having a honeybaked ham \:D

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((((((LE))))))! Just wanted you to know that I was thinking about you this morning. Hope you get those bushes trimmed. Pizza will be ready about 6:00...movie after that. Join us if you like. It will be me and the boys. They are really a lot of fun. Seems crazy that someone who loves them would rather spend Christmas somewhere other than with them. Oh well...his loss!

Merry Christmas, LE! Here's to a better year next year!

Love you!
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{{{{LE}}}}}}}} Amen to what Amy said..here is to a better year next year!!

Just think, by this time next year, we will be in either 1 of 2 spots (I figured this out last night), either we will a) Be a year later into this, be used to it, and the holiday will definitely not suck as badly because we will have a whole new life or b) Our marriages will turn around and the holiday will definitely not suck as badly because we have a whole new life \:\)

I pray that you have a wonderfully peaceful day and hey..I have lots of ham and cheesecake and apple pie here..stop on by on your way to Amy's for some pizza!

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LE...

I've been off and on DB last few weeks... haven't been over here to check on you until now...

thanks for checking on me... I'm so sorry you are here and by the looks of it I'll be over here in the next month or so too... I can't believe it myself....

Hang in there... how was Christmas? as good as can be expected I'm sure.....


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