Merry christmas Jeff, enjoy the day with your wife, no expectations, remember!
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023
Merry Christmas! I hope she enjoys the goodies in her stocking!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Just got her a little charm for bracelet she has, Some of her favorite makeup, couple of CD's and some chocolate. we had a limit so I could't go crazy.
Merry christmas
ME 44 W 32 M 5 T 6
no kids
June 08 I don't want to be married it's not you it's me
Jeff, She will love the charm and the other goodies as well. It's not the price of an time, but the thought that counts.
I do hope today is a wonderful day for you. Merry Christmas!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Things went well at christmas dinner, everyone was happy to see me and I had a great time! I didn't focus on my W but I thanked her because she helped me pick out a gift for her mother and she loved it. I had some laughs and was confident. The meal was good and I enjoyed everones company.
That morning my W and I did the stocking thing which went well. She said she loved her gifts and was waiting for me in the morning when I came home from midnight shift (thats when we did the exchange).
I had to go back to work that night we exchanged texts thanking each other for a great christmas.
Still she threw out statements re: separation.
More to follow
Jeff
ME 44 W 32 M 5 T 6
no kids
June 08 I don't want to be married it's not you it's me