OK I just found out my x has been seeing another woman 30 years old (he is 41) for 3 weeks now. He is telling me he doesnt want to be serious with anyone BUT she says he talks about spending time at the lake this summer and tells her he thinks she has more feelings for him then she lets on. She says he is getting serious. My question is...should I ask him why he is lying to me about not really liking her? He does things for her that he use to do for me 20 years ago. Should I confront him about that and ask why? I think he really likes her, but why wont he just tell me the truth/ HELP ME PLEASE!!!