25 yrs my ex-h was an alcoholic, drug addict, and was verbally and physically abusive. I had a restraining order against him and it was a life and m that I needed to leave behind. I chose not to keep in touch with him because of what I just mentioned.
My current h does not drink, do drugs, nor does he smoke, and has never been verbally or physically abusive. They are night and day.
Now I had control issues in both M's and maybe somewhat bossy, but I am working on that. I have a very dominant personality.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"