25 yrs my ex-h was an alcoholic, drug addict, and was verbally and physically abusive. I had a restraining order against him and it was a life and m that I needed to leave behind. I chose not to keep in touch with him because of what I just mentioned.

My current h does not drink, do drugs, nor does he smoke, and has never been verbally or physically abusive. They are night and day.

Now I had control issues in both M's and maybe somewhat bossy, but I am working on that. I have a very dominant personality.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"