TIme.....there are always going to be triggers, and memories, I think of it this way, I want to remember the good ones, and forget all the bad. I will always love the old stbex, not the new one of the last three years. Some times I don't want to forget the good times for they were happy memories.
Just time will heal...
hugs bear
Me 42-Him 40 T20yrs Married 16yrs 2/06 H- "not sure if i want to be married anymore" 6/07 H-"I'm not happy" 9/07 Admits affair & OW 12/08 I moved out 12/09 still waiting for divorce