HealthyDad - I can't agree more about the people on this site. I was on another site for the last 6 months... The other place has a lot of scorned people who use a 2x4 to tell you to move on, kick spouse to curb, date other people like spouse is doing, and very vivid views on how aweful my W's affair will destroy my D3 - scary views there. Makes you nearly agree after being slapped silly over there.
But not here. Yes here people reinforce GALing and DBing. Offering kind words to help cope, encouraging friendly interactions with spouse, while allowing you to tell WAS that you strongly disagree with their life changing choices, and seeing that some happy endings or at least piecing are possible.
Merry Christmas to you.
Me:40 / W:33 / D:3 T:7.5/M:4 D Day: 1/24/08 Legal Separated: 6/12/08 BF who sleeps over: confirmed 11/10/08 Suspect BF pre-dates D Day