I'm sure you heard it before - you can't believe a single word a WAS says.

H is being lower than low for having the affair - not you for figuring it out. They will always try to deflect the blame and anger back at you... cause ovbiously, you drive them to have the affair. My A$$.

Me:40 / W:33 / D:3
T:7.5/M:4
D Day: 1/24/08
Legal Separated: 6/12/08
BF who sleeps over: confirmed 11/10/08
Suspect BF pre-dates D Day

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