Yes TOH nothing you can say or do will finally wake him up. He will need to wake up all on his own. If you can take that into 2009, you will do just fine.

Have a good evening regardless if your h shows or not.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"