...I just came up to turn off a light and noticed I had left the computer on...funny you should mention college - my S11 just saw a picture of me from college in my mom's bedroom - long hair and beard...I was in my caveman phase...off to my father's soon.
Though I'll most likely check in again tonight, I hope you have a wonderful day with your H tomorrow - and that you manage to keep all the expectations in check...he's certainly feeling safe with you - and that is such a gift to him.
To anyone else that's checking in tonight - let's not forget the precious gift we've gotten from this board - a rare community of exceptional people that are determined to improve themselves - keeping company with the people here has enriched my life - and I thank all of you so very much.