Glam, Your first h is reaching out for some kind of connection w/you and his son. I suspect he's feeling guilty about walking out the door many years ago. What to do? Respond to him and it wouldn't hurt to send him some photos of your son.
I suspect your first h is coming to you at this time to take your focus off of your current h and the situation. Glam, everything happens for a reason....God works in mysterious ways. Do not doubt the whys or what ifs right now. You have nothing to be afraid of and you know...you have the power to hit the delete and disconnect button at any time. You are very proud of your son, so take the high road and send him a photo or two. He's curious for a reason.
As for your current h....he's feeling very guilty for shutting you out yesterday. He's also curious to know just how you and your sister made out. If you do speak to him, be friendly and happy. Show this man that you can do things w/o having to ask him. He needs to sense and see that you are a very capable woman and a classy one as well.
Merry Christmas!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
