I'll try very hard to take your advice. I can tell you that one thing that is making things difficult is that the whore is making up lies and creating huge issues for me. She told him that I had reported him to Child Protective Services for beating my daughter and I, when I had done nothing of the sort. He was NEVER abusive and I would NEVER say he was. She told him that she heard this via people I had tried to contact at his work. Again, nothing but a lie...I have been in contact with no one at his work. I think she is upset because I did contact her stbxh and he and I were able to put two and two together and found out the R started between them 4 months before my H ever moved out. My H is now accusing me of being lower than life and it hurts to think that after 16 years with someone he would believe someone else over me. I'm hurt and can't seem to pick myself up off the ground. I honestly can't take this anymore.
