Merry Christmas mC. Got your post in the RW and replied. I have been away. I travelled the secrets road with D and let my W know that she was teaching her a poor life lesson and it was unacceptable. My W has lived with secrets all her life. That is the only way she knows how to deal with stuff. Wondering if your W is the same? Set your boundaries. Otherwise, enjoy what you can and as you told me don't get too caught up in the other stuff.

Cheers,

LE

M42
S12/D9
T17/M12
Bomb 1 3/22/06
Bomb 2 7/11/08
Bomb 3 7/31/08
W Filed 8/1/08
D granted 12/17/08
D Finalized 1/29/09

A man who compromises his principles never had them in the first place.