are you sure she was a goldigger? Or were just a giver? Just wondering.
LOL...probably just a giver; but she always took willingly. It just sometimes seems coincidental that when the savings was gone and BK loomed ever-so-large that I got the ILYBINILWY and *poof* she was gone!!!
Plans for Christmas have changed now. I'm still headed to my sis' for Christmas Eve. Coming home tomorrow as planned for Christmas day Santa arrival. The W is still planning on staying the night tomorrow night so that she can wake up Christmas morning at the house.
MIL just called to invite me and the kids over to her house after the kids open presents on Christmas. Her brother is in town with his two sons. We're all close. MIL wanted to make sure that I got to see them. She then talked with the W, who was here tonight wrapping gifts; and asked her if she was planning on coming alone. W assured her that she was.
W left about 30 min. ago. Called me in the last 10 min to inform me that she forgot to give me the camera for tomorrow. I told her that I would pick it up tomorrow with the extra key to her car. Here's where it gets weird.
She then asked me if I wanted to stay at her mom's with her Christmas night. So I could visit with her cousin, she knows we're close. He's a cool dude, lots of fun with a good head on his shoulders and a knack for dating batchitt crazy women. So we have some commonalities. Anyway, W said that she didn't have any other plans Christmas night and would be hanging there too; but wanted to know how I felt about staying there. I told her, that I'd think about it; we'd play it by ear.
It has to be the holiday water. Maybe Santa puts something in it!! I am sorry that you are having to do the big B too. Not alot of fun. I am trying to hold out until I get my tax refund but the stress is driving me crazy...it may not be worth waiting for. Good luck with that stuff.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Merry Christmas mC. Got your post in the RW and replied. I have been away. I travelled the secrets road with D and let my W know that she was teaching her a poor life lesson and it was unacceptable. My W has lived with secrets all her life. That is the only way she knows how to deal with stuff. Wondering if your W is the same? Set your boundaries. Otherwise, enjoy what you can and as you told me don't get too caught up in the other stuff.
Cheers,
LE
M42 S12/D9 T17/M12 Bomb 1 3/22/06 Bomb 2 7/11/08 Bomb 3 7/31/08 W Filed 8/1/08 D granted 12/17/08 D Finalized 1/29/09
A man who compromises his principles never had them in the first place.
