I am not sure there is anything. The MLCer has to see that everything they thought their new life was going to bring doesn't. I don't know about the women's perspective, but I know my H is still unhappy, and this MLC has affected everything in his life. I don't know that there is a clap of thunder and the person comes out of it, I think the decline is slow, and painful for us to watch. But they do have to have a realization, and the only person who can have the realization is the person in MLC.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
