WAW - Possible MLC I need help, WAWs advice III

[dday101798]

Keep PMA. Let her keep what if'ng, from what I understadn, that's where you wanna be.

Sounds to me like she doesn't like to see the safety net leaving, Good...She let her now live with her consequences, who knows....?

Well, the way I see it, her validation for walking out with OM is that everything of course was all MY fault. She finally professed her own contributions to the seperation just recently. So, I see the "what if's" as being a reality sinking in that what she's done is wrong.

The damage is done, and everyone she has told her lies know they are exactly that, lies. Lies to cover up her own weakness to perform the hardest work in life, keeping your family together.

As I've said before, this is nothing new to her. I haave come to find out that EVERY relationship she's ever had ended in her cheating. Wish people would have spoke up, oh I don't know 10 years ago, especially when the question was asked "does anyone see any reason why these two people should not be united in holy matramony?". I will darn well see to it that that question DOES get answered when she marries OM, you can bet on that.