For my wife, it was "hitting bottom" that means that pretty much everything she wanted or thought she wanted fell apart, that nothing could fill the hole inside her. When she realized that she had lost was more vaulable then the shiny pretty thing she had replaced them with.
AND there is nothing you can do to speed it up...there are MANY things you can do to slow it down however, choose wisely.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
