Even if a 1 in 1,000,000 chance if you love your spouse, you have take the chance.
I am FAR from one of those unrealistic people.
You can do everything right in DBing, and your spouse might never come back.
But DBing truely isn't about getting your spouse back, its about bettering yourself and learning how to be in a mature relationship.
Trapt was correct about what I said. If you don't believe you can reconcile, then you won't. That statement put responsibility on the LBS, not the MLCer.
Almost everyone here seems to think they did nothing wrong, that somehow their spouse magically decided to just up and leave, MLC or not....that is almost never the case. The ones who don't work on themselves, don't look into the mirror and see their own faults in a relationship, those are the ones who truely fail DB, those are the ones who are stuck.
BTW isn't it like 78% of all statistics are just made up?
Happy Holidays and I hope you have a Great New Year BH.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
