H just moved out, 13 months post-bomb

[ThinkingItThru]

Dawn,

I was just thinking about your comment about MLC not being rational yesterday. I was thinking that my H considers himself to be such a logical, rational person. I'm the emotional, illogical one in his opinion, but what he's doing doesn't make a bit of sense. Why would you throw away 20 years of history and everything you've built, all the sacrifices made, and the stability of your children and family? Why would you be willing to do this and not even try to fix it. My H won't talk about anything, respond to me, or go to MC. I fear I'm faced with living with a roommate for the rest of my life or I will have to eventually move on. His behaviour just isn't logical.

If your car broke would you just leave it in the driveway and not try to fix it? Apparently for many spouses they just go out and get a new car. But my H just wants to leave the broken car in the driveway for the next 30 years. Well, if we can't fix this vehicle, I don't know what I'm going to do. But I digress...

Silent, I agree about there being A LOT of marriages and relationships that are disintergrating right now. I'm really beginning to think there is something to this Pluto Transit concept. I believe Ali Suddenly knows a great deal about this, but the timing of the whole thing is eerie.

Hang in there folks and Happy Holidays.