Keep PMA. Let her keep what if'ng, from what I understadn, that's where you wanna be. As for the ssafety net, while I was looking up waiting for the fall I was miserable. For the past two months, I am not waiting to see her fall. I know she is going to, but I am not hanging my hat wating. I have dropped the rope and oding my detaching and maintaining it. Sounds to me like she doesn't like to see the safety net leaving, Good...She let her now live with her consequences, who knows....?
