Seems like so much of your situation mirrors mine. Did you say that you waited a year before truely deciding to move on? I'm at 6 months now and I've set a timeline for another 6 months before I take action, so I guess it is about the same.
It is difficult when they won't respond. My H won't even talk about it, much less go to MC. Everything at home is pleasant as long as we don't talk about anything.
I think I saw a something on the boards here a while back about trying to talk to and reason with a rock. At some point you realize you're talking to a rock and expecting it to talk back. Thats where I'm at right now.
I've looked for you in the alt world, but couldn't find you. You say your name is the same?
Married - 19 years Noticed Problem - Aug 2008 THE Conversation - Oct 2008
The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference.
