Cleaning out Clutter - ? For Men

[MsMelancoly]

Hey Ali!! Thanks for posting!!
Actually, about the D my H only said he didn't know. (His body language did say that as well). I'm not too shocked, because since I didn't get the D papers, I knew he was unsure what he wants. I was more shocked when he 1st filed -because I felt he was sure of it then.

Personally, I think his mum is pushing for this & maybe his family & friends too. He probably thinks how can I face her family & friends (& even my family & friends) if we to get back together. What will they think of me ... her family & friends probably hate me?? They will never like me after everything I've done. And we've been apart so long, how do we even start to get back together. Then there's his BF, Bob - he has to keep driving him around & being his BF (he sees his job depends on it). Still fear is driving my H. I know that he loves me. I think the other is what is driving his decisions. He has to live his own life & do what he wants .... not what others think is best or want him to do.

Have a nice holiday, Ali