Well I thought things were getting better between me and my wife. Two nights ago she told me she still has too many trust issues to make the marriage work. I asked her (probably shouldn't have) why she hasn't given me the papers yet, she says it's still hard. She said she was hoping we could sit down like adults and figure out the divorce stuff, I said I was hoping to sit down and talk about saving the marriage.
We were just talking on the phone and she was under the impression based on the above conv. that I wasn't going to come over Christmas morning as originally planned. She thinks I told her I wouldn't be comfortable, I never said that. So I told her well if this is going to be our last Christmas together as a family I want to make the most of it, no real response other than ok.
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."