She is spending every other weekend over his place (his parents baasement). Everyone knows this...The ring is because I He wanted it back on that finger. I believe it and I moved it.

I feel very good, she upset me seeing her last night. For three reasons, 1. Coming into the house and going thru things, for no apparent reason, 2. She looks terrible and I do feel bad for her 3. My time, my house...Don't be there when I am there...End of story. Got in a better mood with my kids and my grandson.

I really don't know what she thinks, I care , but it doesn't bother me that I don't. I have strong feelings for her, I love her like crazy, but I realize I need to stand back...This needs to roll itself out. It just boggles the miond that she would piss away all the years we had together looking for happiness, finding nothing but misery adn unhappiness, why wouldn't she start looking back....?