Yeah I don't overexxagerate anything with OW. It was dancing anyway, not a date date. but whatever. I am absolutely in line with you. Yes I do the classis, believe nothing and half of what I see. She was at my house last night, new I'd be alone, too. She needed to get into our safe. My son showed up and went into my room to talk to her. she was getting checks for the joint accoutnm. No money in there. I believe she is getting money from her Dad tonight to put in to cover checks. I asked her about the casr insurance money and she told me she doesn't ahve any can't buy xmas presents, nothing. I said nothing to her after that regarding the insurance. She asked if there was another key to get into my room, I told her no. She was getting some jewelry out of her jewelry case. Most likely xmas presents. She also took a bin of pictures that she wanted to go through for her Dad. Pics are all a year and older. I was talking to older D when she came in and I was laughing and joking on the hone with her. She asked who came in and I told her. she said, what is she doing there? W heard her...
She was going thru the kitchen cabinets and I asked what she was looking for. She said nothing. I said then why are you going thru the cabilnets? She stopped. Looks rough. she told her mother that she just wanted to sleep thru the holidays. Its too tough on her. Like this is a cake walk for the rest of us.
I went to bed l;ast night and asked Him why she came over? What was the purpose? to get checks so she can go shopping and bounce them all over the place? She has always played that game, write the checks and try to get money in the acct before the checks are posted. I asked why she took the pics? I asked why she hung around? I asked a lot of things...I on't remember getting answers, but I slept great and woke up calm...
It must have kille dher to see all the presents under the tree and the bags of stuff still unwrapped in my room. Hey, I have been saving since October, not out drinking and partying...I paid cash for it all....
I am still in my good place...God bless you all, have a wonderful Christmas..
