Hi ITH, thanks for stopping by. Merry Christmas to you and I do hope you get your miracle this year...
I understand what you are saying about having no plans. And it could feel awkward but I think it is in your best interest to try and "prepare" a few things. Maybe you could rent a movie or two and just have them handy, think of a couple of restaurants you could go to, think of a somewhere you could go for a walk in the Christmas mood. Just mention things like that to him and keep it light, and most importantly, I think you should "act as if." As if everyting is fine, "easy living",loving, smile and laugh, try to avoid the tension of walking on eggshells with him. My H and I have been falling back to "old routines" everytime we are alone in the house without the kids, even if it is for 15 minutes... It doesnt feel good although he doesnt seem to care.
Anyway, have a good time, try to be and stay positive, a smile can solve issues and relax people much faster than anything else. Take care, Merry Christmas, have a nice trip, xxx K
