The only view or outlook we have is OUR own. So his statement is nothing but truth. If YOU don't believe then YOU won't. I think everyone on the board is aware of the chances and it speaks volumes about the type of people who come here. You seem to want to keep hammering the negativity home. I think we get the picture. Why? So you can be "real" or "right?"
What our spouses decide is out of our hands, So I guess all we need to worry about is OUR OWN beliefs, huh. Where would we be as a whole without faith or positivity or someone with the balls enough to take a chance, no matter what the odds? The world would be a whole lot less intresting, wouldn't you agree? I guess there would be no need to call this place Divorce Busting then either. Maybe Divorce..... sh*t I don't know healing, coping, aw hell forget it your spouse left it's already over, just vent here?