LO, it seems just like yesterday that our marriages/divorces were on the same time line. So sorry that everything has gone downhill. Our dragged out for 8 months because ex thought he didn't have to figure out anything, in the end didn't really take anything including a bunch of his clothes! Now he has filed bankruptcy and I am soon to follow after(sadly).
I hope your H wakes up enough to see what a mess this all really is and that it isn't worth it. I hope your holidays are wonderful and hold your little angel extra tight.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory