Oh...you didn't pick VeronicaV? That's interesting. I just went into my profile and entered a new name under "Display name" (a few hours later - and once by the next day - it was changed in all my threads).
I just googled bettou and it didn't bring me to DB...though I did see that B*th B*ttou gets one here...that said, when I searched for sablebr*w - my first nick - it doesn't bring up any of my posts here anymore - though somberbrow does bring up some hits even beyond this place...(though my W doesn't know I changed sable to somber...).
Don't worry too much - once the admins approve of your name it should change throughout...besides, from what you've said of your H and where his thoughts take him, I can't really imagine him searching for this site...right?
...weird...as I was typing this my W called...I had already talked with S2 an hour ago - so there wasn't a reason for her to call - I didn't answer - and she didn't leave a message...that's fine...didn't really want to talk with her anyway. I've been having a relaxed time out here - no tension, no strangeness, a lot of fun with my S11 - and loads and loads of time to reflect on things...and even time to realize why I went from sable, to somber to healthy...though I'm still a work in progress in that regard.
Sharon, Veronica, Beth, B*ttou? May we just call you Sybil? ;-)
