How do you make it the lighthouse? By not asking questions, not attacking, not bringing up ow, what he is/is not doing, being kind, learning to bite your tongue, if he is in a bad mood, ignore it, walk away and keep yourself busy with other things......
It is not that difficult to do once you get the hang of it and also do not take the bait if he appears to want to begin an argument with you. Walk away or ignore/
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
